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Hello again, Let me reintroduce myself, and explain what I do. My name is Jessica Murray Elix, and I spent nearly 15 years working with individuals, businesses, and corporations assisting them with their organizing and productivity. From decluttering and organizing houses and office spaces, setting up policies [...]
The Details on SMART Goals
As January closes out, I wanted to touch base with how to identify and accomplish your goals. Most goals - over 90% - fail. That an inspiring success rate, right? To increase your personal/professional success rate, understand your WHY behind the goal, and create and commit to the actual steps.
When to Zip It
"If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all." As you reflect back on the holidays, my guess is there were times that you (or others) could have put this simple lesson into practice. And that's what it takes - practice.
A woman named Joy
The other morning I had an interaction that was unexpected. I was expecting to wake up to blizzard-like conditions, only to see that there was a small amount of slick snow, and no ice on my path. So, I put on my shoes and got the young [...]
Meant to be +
If you would have told me 5 years ago that here I would sit - this business launched, living in Colorado, substitute teaching, walking and navigating some of life's largest hards... I would have called you crazy (or, maybe even something worse).
Resistance into Action
You find yourself in a rut, in the negative mindset of resistance and the inner toddler (or grumpy elder) comes out in you. The "I Don't Wannas" start to emerge, and you dig your feet into the ground in resistance.
Grief Comes with Change
Hello again, I recently heard a mindset-altering phrase: GRIEF COMES WITH CHANGE And honestly, that one hit me in the gut. Think back to the last time you finished a really good book, a TV series ended, had a change in a relationship, job shifts, said hello/goodbye [...]
Don’t miss out –
A quick note to wish you a happy 2025! I had a lot of personal growth (stretching, uncomfortable, stripped to the bones growth) in 2024, and I am starting out this year in the same boat. And for the growth, I am grateful and constantly humbled with how dynamic life can be.
First snow 💙
I got up this morning - extra early because the dogs don't understand the time change - and there was a blanket of fresh snow. My morning was absolutely ruined. (No, not really of course.) My morning routine of getting up, taking my 6-month old pup for a walk, and then having my coffee + quiet time needing adjusting. It was icy, snowy, and chilly. And, I was resistant to that change because I wanted things my way on Monday, the way I've designed. I desired the consistency today. And, I didn't get my desires met.
Toss me a ball or two
From the outside, we see each other as managing humans. Juggling our way through life. But when we have the invisible balls added in to our mix, we are furiously trying to stay afloat - arms and hands waving, hyper focusing, and dropping some of the typical balls, because the heavy ones need more of us mentally and emotionally.
Midlife Crisis, or Midlife Transformation?
As many adult come into midlife, there's a realization that what worked in the first half of life isn't working for now. Hence during the middle of life. This normally occurs somewhere in the 4th decade (give/take).
Mindset Matters & Forgiveness, too!
Why does mindset matter? Our mindset plays a vital role in how we show up - with ourself, significant others, strangers, children, a boss, and colleagues. Heck, even our pets. If we walk around with a negative mindset thinking "the world is out to get me", "I don't matter", "I messed up again", we carry that mindset into most things we do and touch.
